I haven’t been blogging a lot lately and that’s because I haven’t been at my computer lately. I’ve been out and about doing things!
Memorial Day weekend was fantastic, and I did a lot of fun things. Saturday morning Jay and I headed out to Amherst because his sister was graduating. We went to the UMASS AMherst graduation, and it was crazy. There were thousands of people there, and it was amazing. Unfortunately for the graduates, they don’t get their names read, or get to walk across the stage. They just announce “Social and Behavioral Sciences” and those students stand up, and then some professor from their department says “Chancelor, these students are ready to graduate” (or something along those lines), and then they sit. Then, at the very end, the entire glass graduates as a whole, and they all turn their tassles. It was very different from my graduation, where I got my name called and I walked across the stage and shook hands and actually received my diploma. While at this graduation, I couldn’t believe that I graduated three years ago. How time flies!
After the graduation (where my back got burnt - d’oh!), we walked back to his sister’s apartment where they were having a pig roast! Because of my low iodine diet (LID), I had to have a plain burger and unsalted chips and unsalted ketchup and homemade bread. I had to explain to Jay’s mom while I had to eat special things, and doofus Jay never told him mom I have cancer. He said that he didn’t want to tell her because it’s my business or something, but if he had cancer and I was in a relationship with him, I would probably be telling my parents. Most definitely. Unless, that is, he specifically told me not to.
After dinner, we left for the Cape. It was a three hour drive, and we got there a bit after 8. We were staying at Jay’s roommates house, and it just so happened that they had another friend who lived about a mile down the road. Some of the other guys were out mountain biking, so we waited for them to come home to have dinner. We ended the night with some drinks and some games (I LOVE friends who enjoy playing games).
Sunday we had breakfast and hung about the house before going to the beach. It was a chilly day at the beach, and it was on and off raining. I hadn’t prepared, and had to borrow both a blanket and a jacket from other people. I sat covered up on the beach while reading. Once it got a bit nicer, I had a glass of wine and went for a nice walk. Sunday night we went to Bob’s house (the friend down the road), and had dinner. I had a hamburger (I think I’d had one hamburger a day for the past four days at this point). With my unsalted chips and salad, I was fine with this. They had shrimp cocktail and grilled shrimp, and I made Jay describe to me how it tasted since I couldn’t have any. I had been getting upset when I saw him eating something that I couldn’t have, so to fix that, I just started asking him how things tasted. That way I made a bit of a joke out of it, rather than getting myself all worked up over food. With a week and a half more of the diet, I have a lot left to do. With my parents, they don’t eat food around me that I’m tempted to eat. That way, I don’t have a problem. If they want to have pie, then they make a kind of pie that I can eat. Jason, however, isn’t as sensitive. It’s hard on me and I’ve been a bit bitchy about everything. I did give him fair warning about me being bitchy during this diet, so there’s that.
Monday we had a gorgeous day at the beach. It was sunny and beautiful, and we were on the beach for six hours. We all got way too much sun, and my sunburn still hurts! I put on sunblock, but missed a spot on my hip! I didn’t get burnt on my face or any part of my front, only on parts that were hard to reach. We drove home after dinner, and it was a great weekend. It was nice to have a mini vacation.